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Selecting a Babysitter for Your Child

How to pick a babysitter that will take good care of your child

Leaving your child at home with a babysitter, particularly for the first time, can be difficult for both you and your child, but sometimes you simply need to go out whether it be to run errands, for a social occasion, or just to have some alone time to take care of yourself. Pick a babysitter that you have confidence in, and with whose child care approach you are comfortable. Start looking before you need a babysitter if you can so that you have time to find out all the information you need to make the right choice--you do not want to be rushed in this important decision!

Tips for Finding and Hiring A Babysitter

  • Check out bulletin boards at neighborhood middle and high schools, colleges, community centers or libraries. You may be able to post a notice in these locations or even find existing notices for people looking to babysit. Your place of worship is another place you may be able to find a babysitter.
  • Look locally. Advertise in a local newspaper or community newsletter. Check in your community or on-line for babysitting agencies
  • Ask your friends. Talk to other parents that you trust about their babysitters. Ask if they've had any problems or if they've used babysitting services.
  • Do reference checks. Screen a potential babysitter and ask for several references. Check each reference carefully.
  • Interview the babysitter . Invite a potential babysitter to your home to interview him or her about their skills and experience. Create time for the candidate to interact with your child while you are in the room. Ask lots of questions!
  • Lay out the rules. Tell your babysitter your expectations for conduct. Explain the family rules and the ways to enforce them. Leave emergency phone numbers handy so your babysitter can reach you if there are any problems.
  • Stay in contact. Once you leave your child with a babysitter, plan to come home a little earlier than expected, just to see how things are going in your house. It is also a good idea to call while you are out and check-in. Always tell the babysitter that he or she can call you if they are feeling overwhelmed or need help.
  • Suggest activities. Plan out one or two of your child's favorite activities with the babysitter.   Leave easy to prepare meals for them to eat together.
  • Provide specific guidelines for bedtime if you are going out in the evening, or for other activities they may do while you are gone.
  • If possible, talk to your child. Be sure to ask if your child liked the babysitter and regardless of the answer, ask why your child feels that way.

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This information was compiled by Sunindia Bhalla, One Tough Job Manager, and reviewed by the Program Staff of the Massachusetts Children’s Trust Fund.

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