A sex offender continually seeks ACCESS AND PRIVACY with their intended target as part of their manipulation and grooming process. In addition, there are often other red flag warning signs and behaviors to indicate that someone may not be a safe choice around your child. Use common sense, monitor certain relationships that others have with your child, particularly if there are indicators that give YOU an “Uh-Oh Feeling” or just don’t seem right.

Behaviors that routinely disrespect or ignore boundaries make children vulnerable to abuse.

Seeing one of these Red Flags does not mean that you are in the presence of a sexual abuser - but if your instinct is feeling something is off - listen, observe, and minimize this person's access to children - especially in a 1:1 situation, which is the case for an estimated 80% of all child sexual abuse.

This guide is for everyone involved in bringing up children. It explains that some children do sexually abuse other children, describes how we can recognize the warning signs, and outlines some actions we adults can take to prevent sexual abuse.

Children, particularly younger children, may take part in inappropriate interactions without understanding how it might be hurtful to others. For this reason, it may be more helpful to talk about a child’s sexually “harmful” behavior rather than sexually “abusive” behavior.